



Those with insecure styles are more likely to experience intense passionate love that then fades without growing into something more intimate and lasting. Those who are securely attached may still experience passionate love, but this love is also more likely to eventually grow into compassionate/companionate love. Early Attachment Styles: Securely attached individuals tend to form deeper, longer-lasting love while those who are anxiously attached tend to fall in and out of love quickly.If you are at a stage in your life where you are not sure you want to be in a relationship, you will also be less likely to experience falling in love. Timing: Being "ready" to be in love with another person is essential.
